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September Events:

Suicide Prevention Week

September 7 - 13, 2008

For more information go to: www.suicidology.org

 

The goal of Suicide Prevention Week is to globally promote awareness and advocacy about suicide prevention.

Suicidal Facts:

  • Each year, there are approximately 10 youth suicides for every 100,000 youth.
  • Each day, there are approximately 12 youth suicides.
  • Every 2 hours and 11 minutes, a person under the age of 25 completes suicide.

UNDERSTANDING AND HELPING THE SUICIDAL PERSON

Be aware of the Warning Signs:

  • Hopelessness
  • Rage, uncontrolled anger, seeking revenge
  • Acting reckless or engaging in risky activities, seemingly without thinking
  • Feeling trapped - like there's no way out
  • Increased alcohol or drug use
  • Withdrawing from friends, family and society
  • Anxiety, agitation, unable to sleep or sleeping all the time
  • Dramatic mood changes
  • No reason for living; no sense of purpose in life

Be aware of Feelings:

  • Can't stop the pain
  • Can't think clearly
  • Can't make decisions
  • Can't see any way out
  • Can't sleep, eat or work
  • Can't get out of depression
  • Can't make the sadness go away
  • Can't see a future without pain
  • Can't see themselves as worthwhile
  • Can't get someone's attention
  • Can't seen to get control

If you experience these feelings, get help!

Ways to be helpful to someone who is threatening suicide:

  1. Be aware. Learn the warning signs.
  2. Get involved. Become available. Show interest and support.
  3. Ask if he/she is thinking about suicide.
  4. Be direct. Talk openly and freely about suicide.
  5. Be willing to listen. Allow for expression of feelings. Accept the feelings.
  6. Be non-judgemental. Don't debate whether suicide is right or wrong, or feelings are good or bad. Don't lecture on the value of life.
  7. Don't dare him/her to do it.
  8. Don't give advice by making decisions for someone else to tell them to behave differently.
  9. Don't ask 'why'. This encourages defensiveness.
  10. Offer empathy, not sympathy.
  11. Don't act shocked.This creates distance.
  12. Don't be sworn to secrecy. Seek support.
  13. Offer hope that alternatives are available, do not offer glib reassurance; it only proves you don't understand.
  14. Take action! Remove means! Get help from individuals or agencies specializing in crisis intervention and suicide prevention.

CONTACT:

  • A community mental health agency
  • A school counselor or psychologist
  • A suicide prevention/crisis intervention center
  • A private therapist
  • A family physician
  • A religious/spirtual leader

TALK TO SOMEONE - YOU ARE NOT ALONE